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February Issue 2012

Welcome to this issue of my free parenting E-zine in which I bring you small snapshots of the joys and problems of raising children.

SPECIALS

FEATURES

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 SPECIALS - The National Year of Reading

 

It is alarming to learn that the level of literacy of almost half of the population of Australia is so low that people cannot understand and fill in forms, follow recipes, read instructions on medicine, or other instructions and safety warnings. This year many individuals and groups including the government, libraries, schools, writers and health workers will concentrate on helping people and children in particular, to become both more literate and to find pleasure in reading.

Books have been constant companions and sources of pleasure to me all my life. My home contains hundreds of books ranging from picture books that have no words, to simple books for children just learning to read, to great novels of the world, to professional reference books, to dictionaries and encyclopaedias. With all the books I own, I still regularly bring books from the library and a day never goes by without me reading something. Books allow me to have adventures and meet people, animals and places that I could never go to physically. They allow me to learn interesting skills, facts and opinions. Life without being able to read would be unimaginable.

Children need to read and it should be fun, not an ordeal. Can you help a child to love reading? Can you help a child to value books? I’m sure you can. Here are some tips:

  • Bring books into your home to keep

  • Read to your children every day. Make reading to your child a time he/she will love by making it relaxed, special, a time for him/her alone.

  • Look at books with your child and make up a story about the pictures.

  • Recall and talk about books you have shared.

  • Take your child to the library to borrow books.

  • Tell stories to your child and encourage them to tell you a story about what they have done today.

  • Help your pre-schooler to write a story to put below their drawing. The story might only be one line.

  • Point out special signs in the environment such as traffic signs, the labels of food, names of people in the family and encourage your children to point out these words to you. Point out special words in books.

  • Play word games such as I spy, or looking for certain letters on number plates as you drive. 

  • Buy books as rewards.

  • Make a book or books with your children at pre-school.

    There will be many online book and reading activities this year. Here is the link to one blogspot I came across where a story will be posted every week.  http://rydeyearofreading.blogspot.com/

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FEATURES

Ages and Stages-Two Year Olds

My two year old granddaughter was here over Christmas and interacted happily with her 7 year old cousin and other children all older than she is. I was surprised at how much the two year old had developed in the last three months. Her behaviour was typical of the development of twos.

  • Imaginative play: Twos play well with older children and copy their games. My two year old joined in the games enthusiastically even when the activities were new to her.
  • Language: Two is a great time to introduce children to new words through both talking and reading to them. My two year old listened intently to conversations going on around her. Her understanding was not always correct but her ability to pick up and repeat new words and phrases, was excellent.
  • Physical activities: Twos have big energy reserves, can move very quickly and will play until they are exhausted. Water games, climbing and jumping are favourite pastimes. Two year olds like to find their own level instead of having an adult imposing restrictions but supervision is always necessary. My two year old normally has an afternoon sleep but was determined to keep playing with older children. Because she'd missed her sleep she often fell asleep over her evening meal.

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Kids 'n Gardening -Safety in the garden

The garden is a wonderful place for kids to play as long as they follow some safety tips.

  • Teach children not to eat anything from a plant before showing it to an adult.
  • Children should look at instead of touching any creatures they find.
  • Provide garden tools that are meant for children – adults tools are dangerous for kids.
  • Make it family procedure to use hats and sun protection while gardening.
  • There must be adult supervision –a crawling baby or a toddler can drown in water left in a bucket.
  • Many garden plants are poisonous or have poisonous parts but instead of removing them all from the garden, learn about them and teach the children the facts. There is an excellent illustrated guide to common plants that cause problems in Australian gardens on the Westmead children’s Hospital site at http://kidshealth.chw.edu.au/ 13 11 26 is the poisons number to dial for emergencies.

----------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------- Kids in the news -Bandaged Bears

Have you heard of the Bandaged Bear Appeal? It is run every March by the Children’s Hospital in Westmead to raise money to aid sick children. It can be traumatic for children and families when a child is injured or becomes sick and needs to stay in hospital or make regular visits there for treatment. Children with diabetes, cerebral palsy, cystic fibrosis, leukemia and many life threatening conditions such as meningococcal disease, must spend time there. Westmead hospital saves many lives. Unfortunately through the media, it is often those who are not saved that the public remembers.

By supporting the bandaged bear appeal, you will help with

  • research,
  • helping to give families accommodation in times of trauma
  • providing drugs
  • providing support people who will help patients and families.

Schools are an integral part of the appeal. It is great that well children can help sick ones. Here is a link to the site http://www.bandagedbearday.com.au See if your family or your pre-school or child care centre can do something special in March this year.

-------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------Healthy Living Learning to Swim

Water is an important part of Australian life and we know that everyone should learn to swim. My granddaughters aged 7 years and 2 years, both love the water and are confident playing in it under supervision. The older one started learn to swim classes this week. Summer is the time when most families take their children to places where water is the fun thing, but sadly every year there are tragic drownings in Australia. These accidents are preventable. For families who are not in places where learn to swim classes are available, there is excellent help on the internet at www.uswim.com

The lessons at this site are at three levels.

Level one for babies 4months to three years.

Level 2 for children over 3 years to learn breath control.

Level 3 for children over 3years to learn swimming strokes.

The first level, for babies 4 months to 3 years is for teaching baby to respond to the command ‘name ( e.g.Sarah) ready, go’.  Baby will learn to be relaxed in the water, take a breath, close his/her eyes.  Playing with toys in the water is also included in this first level. The lesson plan should be printed out before teaching the child. In the plan six steps are clearly shown complete with suggestions for songs to be used during the lesson. Failure to print out the lesson plan may result in forgetting one of the steps or doing the steps in the wrong order.

As well as watching the video for babies in level 1, I clicked on the SwimSAFER button at the www.swimaustralia.org.au site. I read one story there. It is a very confronting and tragic story of one family losing their 12month old during bath time. We all think we are careful but just being distracted for one minute can lead to tragedy.

------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------Indigenous news -Aboriginal Swimming stars

Thomson Fleming, 9, and Jorjhara Koraba, 8, are members of the Silver City swim club in Broken Hill and have just won a number of medals at a competition in Mildura. Thomson is a descendant of the Barkindji tribe, and Jorjhara, a descendant of Saibai Island and the Bidjara and Birri-Gubba tribes.  Jorjhara won four gold, two silver and one bronze medal while Thomson won six gold, one silver and two bronze. They both qualified to go to Adelaide to the championships.

In the Adelaide championships in which 600 swimmers competed in age races, Thomson was the fastest nine year old and he was in the final of the 11years and under 100 metres backstroke. It is wonderful to see young Aboriginal swimmers doing so well. Congratulations kids.

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Book Review : Stick Man

by Julia Donaldson

Illustrated by Axel Scheffler

ISBN 978-1407108827

Alison Green Books  2009

This amusing story in rhyming verse is about the day a Stick Man loses his way. Will he ever get home to his family tree, his Lady Love and his children three? The stick is in great demand by both animals and birds but everyone fails to see that he is a man. He is fetched by a dog, used as a Poo stick by children, put in a nest, becomes an arm for a snowman and finally ends up in a fireplace. But all is not lost. There is a wonderful end to the story.  This book quickly became a favourite of my two year old granddaughter and she enjoyed looking for Stick Man in the garden and out in the bush. The illustrations have just the right amount of detail and the board pages in the version I saw, make it ideal for the very young to handle. Children of two to 7 will love it.

------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------Play ideasPlaying with sticks

Having heard the story of Stick Man children will have ideas for using sticks. Some people may think that sticks are not good play things but safety measures can be taught. They are certainly a wonderful natural material and come in different sizes, shapes and textures – some are bendy, some brittle, others stiff and strong with bark of different types also.

Small sticks, (natural ones or paddle-pop sticks and match sticks), are great in the sandpit as fences, flag poles, bridges and trees. Larger sticks tied together for can be tee-pees or tent frames, They are useful for drawing with, measuring and counting, Kids will use sticks to stir pots of pretend food, or as drum sticks, or in games of jumping, fishing and camping.  Painted, chunky ones make good clicking sticks for music time. A family of sticks can be used to tell your own Stick Family story.

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Copyright 2009/2011

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Helen's  books, Everyday learning about storytelling and Simply Storytelling, will help you to tell stories to your children. For Everyday learning, go to www.earlychildhoodaustralia.org.au and look at the catalogue

For Simply Storytelling (ISBN 9780864588104 published by Tertiary Press)  go to  www.pearsoned.com.au/VetDirect put the title in the keyword search and click.

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